Find the steamiest erotica you possibly can and read it out loud to each other to set the mood, explains Brito. Feel like it might be a li'l awk? That's fine, laughter can also lead to sex. 4. Bring in a third party In Napa Valley, tour across the wineries and even book a wine tasting session. Relax in the hot springs nearby with your lover and maybe add a bottle of wine to that? 44. Dine underwater

We recommend the Cowgirl/Cowboy for the analfirst-timer, since the receiving partner controls the pace and depth of penetration. You’re also face-to-face with your partner, allowing for lots of intimacy as well as easy communication.

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Make sure your machine is on so you get to feel allllll those vibrations. 39. Get out the whipped cream In theory, two people simultaneously giving and receiving oral sex is simple and sensual. In reality, it's not so straightforwardly enjoyed. Between the multi-tasking and awkward positioning, some people love to 69 and some people hate it. The only way you're gonna find out which team you're on is to give it a try. 92. Try to give yourself multiple orgasms. Lease a sunset cruise on the River Thames. Soak in the fresh air and drench together in your love and the orange sunset. 43. Tour the Napa Valley wineries Virtual sex parties are a great way to dip your toes into the idea of swinging and/or getting it on in public, and the best part is you don't even have to leave your couch or put on pants to attend.

You know the idea of vibrating undies sounds sexy as hell. A few fun places to discretely wear them: at a friend's party, at a restaurant, or while at a bar. A not-so-great place to wear vibrating panties: your in-laws' house. 42. Have a boudoir shoot for yourself. The next time your mom guilts you into a visit, bring your boo along for a bit of bedroom lovin'. If your parents are in the "you can't sleep in the same room until married" camp, sneaking around in the middle of the night will make the whole thing even more thrilling. 109. Try a sex challenge for the weekend. Honestly, I don’t even think it matters where. Just to be in a helicopter alone would be incredible. 37. Swim with dolphinsSo you can listen to music at the same time, as though you’re together in person. 9. Read a book together It's sexy! It's spooky! It's a fun reminder that life is short and orgasms are great! Just make sure to go when it's dark and remember, public sex *is* illegal, so do with that what you will. 4. Give a foot job. Before jumping into butt play, easing into anal with a finger is an easy way to test the waters. It can be your fing or your partner’s, but gently insert it and give the anus a lil massage to see what all the fuss is about. 50. Try a toy up the butt. Nope, you don’t necessarily need insane leg power or superhero coordination to pull off having sex standing up. Prop up your leg or have your partner hold it, and make sure you have something to hold onto in case the thrusting and grinding get you off balance. 94. Have sex on a couch. Strip down to your birthday suit and go skinny dipping with your partner. Just don’t blame me if you get caught. 3. Go on a road trip