Not only did I smash things about in the kitchen but I swore at the client’s wife when she tried to give me some advice. My wife said she realized when she was in her teens that, much as she dislike being spanked, she knew she wasn’t going to outgrow needing it. More importantly, men these days don’t appreciate the fact that sometimes a woman’s brain just needs a good cleaning out so she can feel better about herself and the world around her.

Even tho this has been a deep dark secret fantasy for me for a long time my husband and I both are new to this and learning and I would just really appreciate any guidance or advice.For the most part these days, boys never seen a girl have to bring her mother the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch. Feminism at its core is about women having equal rights under the law, equal pay for equal work, etc. A woman these days may also have to tell a man that there are times when her bottom needs more than one good smack.

But what they really need is for us to recognize that they are struggling, face their emotional storm calmly without getting offended, and take action.Some people make longer lists of things, but I find that it’s easier to keep it simple, as that short list actually covers quite a lot. The problem arises with explaining things to children these days because of the widespread belief there is some magical age beyond which girls can’t be spanked. In the well documented case of Melos during the Peloponnese War, the Athenisans killed all the men of military age, but allowed the women to live as servants. But now living in a new location i do not have my support system in place…and my husband is getting tired of my disposition. What is so interesting about it is that the woman concerned would have been horrified at the time to confront certain aspects of her marriage and would probably have shied away from anything that smacked of ‘perversion.

She told me several years later that she liked me to take her panties down as she felt that I was in control and not her in having to bare her bottom.

These realizations made it much easier for my wife and I to discuss spanking shortly after we began dating. It would not surprise me in the least to discover that, while there are most probably a number of exceptions, many men on these sites have a history of failed relationships and romances. Early in our marriage, I realized that my wife’s need to be spanked often coincided with her monthly cycle. While teenage daughters still dread it, they nonetheless are more likely than their male peers to submit to it and learn the desired lesson from it.