We made a plan to do it covertly elsewhere. We arranged to meet near the phones and then make our way to one of the Warrior armoured fighting vehicles. Most extreme thing I did was take GHB and let my ex and her mate strap-on me while we were all off our faces and drunk.’ The one with the older woman… It’s why my confession is a crazy twist in a way. See? I didn’t want to save our marriage. I didn’t have any interest in how we looked to our friends. Craziest thing ever was tearing my foreskin during sexual intercourse and not knowing which of us was bleeding after climax as the pleasure masked the pain for about 10 seconds.

All of my wild sex escapades were in the midst of my disease and not with my wife. For me, it all centred around being pursued and pursuing others, it was never about the sex itself. I was with men, women, men and women at the same time, with cross-dressers, and have cross dressed myself. To my knowledge, she is completely unaware. Today, I am living my amends to her by being faithful and placing my sex life on to a spiritual plane.Story #8: This month I used the Spotify playlist as suggested in dare #3 to get me more in the mood in the afternoon before my husband got home. It definitely helped me to be in the right frame of mind instead of just trying to jump right in like he can! M.E. (married for 4 months) She has always been keen on the idea but sensibly wary about damaging a relationship. In the beginning it was “this is just a fantasy, we shouldn’t risk it”. I’m not proud of these experiences, some were good and fun, some I put myself into danger, and all in all I carry a lot of shame. Went to a Naturist Spa in Kentish Town and banged a 47 year old in a steam room. I’ve also been in a gangbang.’ The one who likes to share… We’d had some heavy petting my last night in the medical centre but it was too risky to go further as the Doc and the medics slept in there.

Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro.co.uk) The one whose experience happened during a time of alcoholism… My wife requires me to remove all my clothes before I come in the front door of our home. I’m not allowed clothing at all. She says she needs to see my caged penis and little white ass. She says it’s how a submissive should be. The Chasity cage has given her full control over my orgasms. At first it was really uncomfortable, but then we figured out the proper size ring to use and it’s not so bad now. I have not had an orgasm in 12 days.My ex decided she wanted a four-way, promised me it was other women, and that all would be a surprise. My wife and I had driven for about six hours before getting there and she’d been teasing me by saying things she knew would turn me on and by rubbing my penis. When I first got with my partner we were at it all of the time, trying new moves and weren’t afraid of anything!