As far as the statement of gender, I really couldn’t care any less. Who my wife decides to sleep with, I have long ago decided was none of my business. There are exceptions to this rule, but for the most part, as long as she is doing this in a safe and controlled environment, practicing safe sex, and being true to herself as a human being, I have no cause for complaint. I don’t feel jealousy over physical intimacy and I can’t really fathom why anyone would. I don’t know why this emotion exists anymore. Wife doesn't want one on one sex with Unicorn, and she doesn't want you and Unicorn to have one on one sex. Because she is insecure that somehow one on one sex involving Unicorn will destroy your marriage. All sex with Unicorn must involve all 3. I notice you like things we all do together, and not just the three people sex. I also notice that you struggle with the idea of me and Unicorn doing things on our own. What is this to you? A fun experiment like a one time or short term thing? You only wanted to share sex but not share love? Something else? MY HUSBAND HAS EYES FOR MY BEST FRIEND…AND SO DO I! (Holly’s Hot Holiday Husband Share, Two College Professors Enjoy an FFM Ménage a Trois) by Jane Kemp Home / Sex & Relationships / My Wife Found a Girlfriend My Wife Found a Girlfriend There is an obligation to put your spouse above yourself. Polyamory, for us, fills that obligation rather nicely.

I was able to see him as a human being, if you know what I mean. Not as my husband or my daughter's father, but as a man, a sexual being, a person who wants to be wanted, who needs to be wanted.We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. Effectively, and this will seem a bit odd unless some context is involved, this is my wife applying her standard levels of preparation to everything. She felt that presenting everything in a pre-arranged way would be easier for me to get my head around. I explained that this is simply too big a jump for me to process in one go. I pointed out my worries- everything from basics like protection to what our son might think unless we were supremely careful. I'm pleased to say that she listened and understood. She apologised for running away with the planning without telling me anything. I got her to talk more about what she was expecting... and I'd be lying if I say I didn't find the idea of some of it quite hot. We ended up having sex again and very good sex is was too. So, the main problem is (I think?) Wife doesn't want one on one sex with Unicorn, and she doesn't want you and Unicorn to have one on one sex. Because she is insecure that somehow one on one sex involving Unicorn will destroy your marriage. All sex with Unicorn must involve all 3. Warning: This ebook contains very explicit descriptions of sexual activity and includes rough sex,first lesbian sex, lesbian seduction, group sex, and more. Only mature adults who won’t find that offensive should read this collection.

Do you love her? Does she love you? It's been 9 months. How has your marriage changed with a new shared partner for both you and Wife? But do you want to?" I didn’t need him to answer me. It was clear that, in his head, he was already there.We often say, when a formerly mono relationship becomes poly, the old relationship is dead, and a new one has arrived. Does it feel like that to you and/or Wife? Is the new relationship OK? Are there wobbles? This triad has had long weekends and longer vacations together. Of course, they are not having sex constantly on these vacations. Of course, they are sightseeing, going to the bathroom, eating, shopping, talking, driving or walking through airports, flying, arranging accommodations, etc., etc. Some fantasies need to stay just that. I'm not a huge proponent of marriage, nor do I buy into the idea of monogamy-for-a-lifetime, it's against all science. But for those who are married, a 3rd party in the bedroom will destroy the intimacy with your spouse, and isn't that the main reason for marriage (other than the fact it's better for raising children and it's mandated by religion and societal 'norms')?