he told the girlfriend that he was drunk and remembers nothing so she can believe the lie too. he told you that as well as an indirect way of saying "whatever happened, dont bring it up again and it did not happen".

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Turn off your phone. Nobody wants their phone to be dinging during what’s supposed to be a relaxing 30-90 minutes. Even a vibration is often noticeable in a quiet room, so go nuclear, and shut the dang thing down. Probably needs a break anyway after being on for a few months straight. Dave and Scott have successfully created a space for men to relax. The Farm is quiet, with lovely outdoor spaces to sit, eat, read, view/swim in the pond, walk the trails, soak in the hot tub, etc. Anyway, firstly, I suspect that he may be one of those guys who gets 'bent on the ends' when they get drunk (i.e. they're not completely straight). Sober, he would be. We booked massages and we both agreed they were wonderful! The rooms are comfortable and tasteful and breakfast was varied and homemade – with a view to being healthful.

I am a professional insured male therapist, ITEC qualified, with over 20 years’ experience in various massage techniques and reflexology. We recommend that you schedule your massage appointment at least 48 hours in advance; Same day appointments are usually not possible. I'm a straight guy and have never had any form of sexual experience with a guy until a couple of months ago. I had a similar experience with a 'straight' friend many years ago. We had a few drinks, I slept over his place, and then during the night while we were passed out together he started touching my face and laughing. At first I thought he was just being a goof, but then I moved a little closer. Before I knew it we were making out and it went from there. For the purposes of this post, let's refer to my straight friend with whom I had the sexual experience as "Jeff".

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And while the “release” or “happy ending” is quite common in certain corners of the massage world (Asian parlors are particularly famous for it), one doesn’t generally expect it at an upscale Manhattan establishment. Perhaps, as massage therapy goes mainstream, it’s simply harder for the agencies charged with governing its practices to keep a watchful eye.I understand you feel terrible about keeping this secret from your girlfriend. Honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship. But some stones are better left unturned. Ultimately you’ll have to decide this on your own. We ended up talking on the phone again about a week later when I asked if some friends could come over and watch football. During this conversation Jeff brought up the sexual encounter again and stressed how important it was that his girlfriend not find out about it. I told him that I had no intention of telling his girlfriend. I mumbled responses-I’m a writer and a comedian, usually; I didn’t know I had abductors-hoping my terseness would put a damper on his curiosity. It didn’t, and he continued chatting as he kneaded his way up my thighs, his fingers dancing dangerously close to the unauthorized no man’s land. I was put more at ease when he moved to my shoulders, safely away from the more vulnerable territories to the south. Eventually he asked me to turn over. I agree that the best thing to do is to put the whole thing out of my mind and pretend it never happened. The only way I think he would ever bring it up would be to guage my response to determine if I remembered anything.

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If you don't want it to happen again, that's easily remedied. If you two are alone (or alone-ish), and you see him drinking quite a bit, just say "you might want to slow down a bit. Let's not have a repeat of last time.". Say it with a smile, and don't reference it again. That'll let him know you know, you're cool with it, and you're not interested in a repeat performance, You do not want his girlfriend finding out. Why? Well, just imagine how you'd feel if your boyfriend wanted to hang out with a guy he cheated on you with. Unless she's a super kinky freak and finds it incredibly hot and either wants to watch her boyfriend and you together, or wants to have a threesome, she's not going to want him anywhere near you. I decided to confide in a mutual straight friend (we’ll call him "Doug") because I felt like I needed to talk to somebody I trusted and who was familiar with Jeff. I thought I could trust Doug not say anything, and he didn’t for about 6 months. Then one day Doug and Jeff got into a heated argument, and Doug brought up what I had told him about Jeff. Doug did this just to be hurtful to Jeff, but of course it had serious implications for me as well.Hello Guys, ITEQ qualified Hungarian male massage therapist based in Northolt with 8 years experience. If the ideal doesn't happen, and you have to have a serious talk with him.. ugh. Definitely, definitely, don't take all the blame (or any of the blame - it's better if he accepts it all on himself, otherwise he might blame you completely to avoid feeling like his sexuality has been questioned). This is definitely a situation that is more traumatic for him than for you, and has far greater complications.