It is reasonably possible you work with an ABDL, are friends with an ABDL, or even live with an ABDL (possibly even the parent of an ABDL). The feelings of being smol or into diapers is a significant stress reducer, and the diaper is many ABDL's drug of choice to lessen stress and anxiety, acting as a healthy coping mechanism. If you are a parent reading this, and you think your kid is ABDL, I'd encourage you to support them and know they can choose many ways to handle stress that is detrimental to their physical or mental health; the diaper is not a harmful method. Alone in a stall, I inspected my wet pullup. I was feeling a strange sense of pride. I just peed myself, in a diaper, in front of a crowd, to the point where it leaked, and nothing bad had happened! I pulled on a fresh pullup, disposed of the wet one appropriately, and headed out for lunch. I ate a filling meal at an Asian place in the food court, followed up by treating myself to a soft pretzel. I felt a small amount of pressure in my bowels, but it would be fine. Like I said, I really wanted to avoid messing myself in public. I'd either poop at home or, if it was more urgent, use the toilet. I considered messing myself in a stall where nobody could see me and I could change at my leisure, but even that felt like pushing it (pun somewhat intended.) The real question is, "why do you want to know?" or, "Are you interested and curious about the practice of ageplay?" Many people find their love of ageplay very young or in their early twenties due to many factors. Knowing about the ABDL tendencies of your best friend has nothing to do with whether they trust you. The beautiful part about relationships is that long-lasting relationships are built over time through the smallest of moments. If you happen to be close to an ABDL, they will eventually tell you if they feel safe, and your trust is unwavering over a long period.

You are going to have an accident. It’s inevitable. Accept that wherever you are going, you will make a puddle on the ground. If wetting your pants makes you feel little, accept this too. Maybe you have come close to having accidents in public already… but this time is the real deal. A beach is a great place to wet your pants because no one will suspect a thing. Just lay down on your beach towel in your swimsuit and feel how you cannot hold it in anymore. You can just swim in the water to rinse off signs of your little accident. Everyone will assume the wet spot on your towel is from swimming. No one will guess that you are a pants wetter!Go through the baby aisle and acting like a baby? Or go to the toy section and play with toys on the ground? Even best friends hold the information that they are into regression or diapers close to the chest as not everyone is as open-minded as they think they are. Discussion in public and private social circles regarding ABDL over the past 100 years has not held even the closest of relationships together after disclosure. It has ended many friendships and healthy relationships. "Why?"

Many ABDLs go through a majority of their life without telling anyone they are ABDL. It hasn't been until the availability of information through the internet that more ABDLs connect on a large scale and find enough support to be more open about their ageplay tendencies. Is someone I know and love ABDL? All I’m saying is that I believe people should dress appropriately in public around non-consenting individuals. If your shirt rides up and your diapers’ waistband shows, o well, that’s natural with clothes. If you can see a little bit of a diaper bulge, o well, it happens. If you go out in a onesie, & diaper with shorts on over, you have a cute outfit. But when your diaper is on full display, that’s no longer a stylistic choice and it crosses the line of involving others without their consent. When i was changing my diaper, using a disabled restroom (which was also mixed with the baby chaning area). So while in the middle of cleaning my mess, this older women walked in, seen me changing my diaper and just apoligised and left, so i finished changing and left, and as i did i heard the women talking to one of her freinds as i was leaving. So ye that was akward.

Summertime is the perfect time to have an accident in public. There are many ways you can wet your pants without anyone directly noticing. Wetting your pants can be an age regression experience, or just a f un and embarrassing activity. So how do you plan for an accident? Others enjoy the feeling of adult diapers but have no medical need for them. There are various psychological theories as to why this is, including imprinting and James Money’s lovemap theory. Even so, there isn’t much research into the area. Where do ABDLs wear adult diapers? It’s not currently clear how big the AB community is, as most people who enjoy wearing adult diapers do so in private. The Diaper Pail Friends was one of the first groups dedicated to adult diaper wearing, and reached nearly 3000 members by 1995. By 2008, with the help of the internet, the group had grown to over 15,000 members. Why do some people love wearing adult diapers? Knowing if your friend is ABDL shouldn't have any bearing on your relationship's quality; if they feel comfortable in themselves, they will tell you; or maybe they won't. Purposefully not wear a diaper and wet my pants before I enter the store, then walk around the store looking at different brands of diapers

In many cases, it is not safe for ABDLs to tell others as many parents or friends can see this as something that needs therapy even though the tendencies are healthy. Misunderstanding can lead to fear and many hurtful assumptions. It is for this reason many ABDL's keep their preferences safe within their own space. Chances are you know an ABDL. :D Anywho, I kinda want to do something there involving abdl that I wouldn’t normally be able to do either here in my hometown, or with my girlfriend. I’m not even sure what I want to do but I want to feel that thrill, if you know what I’m talking about. Obviously I don’t want to get arrested or anything, so I’m not gonna walk around in just a tshirt and a diaper. But are there other things I can do that minimally will give me that thrill? These are just a few examples I’ve come up with so far: The short answer; It's hard to say. People will tell others more about themselves when they feel confident in who they are. Maybe they will someday, perhaps they won't.

I have enjoyed the freedom that i felt about just being able to wet myslef as and when i pleased, and not having to worry about going to the toilet. It's felt kinky and fun wearing diaper at places i wouldnt of expected, like when i went to a festival in a diaper, or when i wore diapers to a concert (Which at this one i was in the standing area, and some people defintly felt my diaper) Universally, there are always rotten eggs in any group, but I'd argue that ABDL's have much richer and more authentic personal lives than the average relationship. You may ask, "Why is that?" Get a sweater to wrap around your pants, a long skirt or a change of clothes. Have something with you that can cover up the wet patch on your pants. If you like the idea of blushing when others see what you’ve done, you don’t have to cover it up. It’s good to be prepared just in case… As most of the ABDL community keep their interest in adult diapers private, it isn’t clear exactly what drew them to this interest in the first place. It seems that some people are introduced to wearing adult diapers due to incontinence or other medical issues, and then later become more comfortable wearing them.