That said, O’Reilly notes that there are lots of legit reasons why oral sex can be just as pleasurable for the giver as it is for the receiver. There's even a beautiful moral at the end: "Everybody knows that sluts are the coolest." It's true! And while you’re doing some pruning down there, you may want to grab some mild soap, too. According to Weiss, it’s a good idea to wash your pubic area shortly before receiving oral sex, especially if you’ve recently been sweating.

Straight men touch another penis for the first time Video: Straight men touch another penis for the first time

Because I like receiving, and it would be shitty of me to expect enthusiasm down there if I wasn't willing to go to town on a guy's junk myself." [ via]Now, I encounter more negroes than in my entire life, and I have never been treated so badly. The males are mean; straight out mean. I had a good, lifelong career in a relatively diverse environment where I was received and treated well. Life changed, and now I’m in a manufacturing environment. I was raised with culture and character. Yet, as I walk around my workplace, and attemt to cordially speak to those in passing, I receive glares and no response. As if I’d done something malicious to them. Killed their dog? Slashed their tires? I don’t even know these people, that clearly don’t want to give me a chance to get to know them, and all I can say, after a few decades of life, I have never been treated as rudely by caucasians and other Europeans, as I have by these humans (?), that share my ethnicity. You want her attention on your penis and not her sore knees or a limb that’s lost feeling,” says Dr. Miro Gudelsky, a sex therapist and intimacy expert with a PhD in human sexuality.

longer a big deal, teen girls say - The Toronto Star Oral sex no longer a big deal, teen girls say - The Toronto Star

Turns me on, makes me feel sexy. I love feeling a guy grow hard for me. I suppose its also a control thing." [ via]Don’t hold your breath or stifle your sounds,” says O’Reilly. “Moans, groans, exhales, movements, smiles, and effusive verbal appreciation are a turn-on for so many people.” I feel in control... but most importantly, I just love pleasing him. My boyfriend is currently working 65-70 hour weeks, manual labor. He’s exhausted when he comes home. He eats dinner, plays on the computer 30-45 minutes, then drags himself to bed. He’s doing all this so I don’t have to worry about working while I’m in school.