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But my goals at work are very different from my goals in my mar- riage. At work, I want to satisfy my clients, produce results, and improve the bottom line. With my husband, I want to snuggle, laugh, and share my hopes and dreams. I want his face to light up when I walk into the room, and I want to feel desired. Those are completely different goals, and they require a completely different skill-set to attain. And although I knew I had experienced it at times, I really had no idea why that happened, or how to create more of it.

But many times you choose to get defensive, and may even think he is weak when he really shares his feelings.

My question is whether it becomes easier, or will I always have to force myself through the process to stay detached and on my own paper? In still feeling vulnerable, will it be OK in a couple of days to tell him I miss him? Are you passionate about practicing The Six Intimacy Skills™? Does helping a hurting woman have an “aha!” about how she can fix her marriage give you a high? I wasn’t sure I was lovable, and I was deathly afraid to find out. I was scared that I was too damaged, too needy, too strong-willed and not pretty enough.