When I was ten years old, I was staying with my parents at a hotel in Southern France, at the Mediterranium. As I was a very good swimmer, my parents left me at the beach every day, when they were out doing other things. One day I was lying on the sand, when I felt something shadow my eyes. I looked up and saw a girl, maybe a couple of years older than I, standing at my side. Ok", I said, "I'll try! But I don't know if I can pee in my panties. Especially when you're looking..." As a result, the muscles play a key role in your need to pee - giving you control over when you urinate. Cos I was so pissed I wasnt too steady on my feet and ended up toppling about and weeing on my shoes. Unfortunately, they were suede. For some reason (probably the fact I'd been in a place with a free bar for 8 hours) I found this very, very upsetting and ended up walking home, barefoot, crying my eyes out.

If I tell you it wasn't... I really had to pee, that's for certain, but I could easily have waited until I was in the water." It was extremely embarrassing and I ran out. the teachers knew but I didn't tell anyone and it was kind of brushed off.I'm hoping when people read my story they will be inspired. Kidney disease is a massive thing that's not spoken about and especially in young women." She was clearly very distressed so I rushed over and helped her to her feet. I said, “Let’s get out of here”, and sure enough we were soon heading out in the darkness towards the lane, at the end of which she lived. I slipped my arm around her shoulder and she immediately responded by throwing her arm tightly round my waist, suggesting she fancied me. Within a few months you should notice results, enjoying greater sensitivity during sex 'I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy'

That was my first time. The days, that followed, we spent at the beach, drinking lots of water until we couldn't hold ourselves any longer and peed ourselves. We did it lying down in the sand, standing up and even walking! This was how it began, and I've never stopped since... In school I remember being nearly to the end of my class when I asked if I could go to the toilet because I couldn't hold it and they said no. I ended up having a full-blown accident which was noticeable to the whole of the class," she said. We all happily started stripping off. Soon we were all standing in her garden, freezing cold but happily starkers. As a teenager I always used to spend about ten days each year with Cousin Clare and her parents. Clare wasn’t actually my cousin, but her mother and my mother were at school together, and it was a convenient way to refer to her. Clare was an only child. Candie's illness is an incurable one and while she can take various treatments to help, there is no fix. Eventually her remaining kidney will fail and she will need to have a transplant and will then need to take tablets for the rest of her life.

'All around me was a wet puddle'

If I wasn't doing this I would just be claiming off the system and there's a lot of trolls in that of itself with people who diss people who claim benefits. I'm now actually able to be independent and pay my own way and my children can have things they wouldn't have had before.

I got very excited at the thought that next time I took those items of clothing off - they'd be saturated. At the house I was shown to my room, a different one from normal. It looked like a large box-room and had several extra items of furniture, including a big old dressing table. Angie’s face was a picture. For a minute I thought she was going to turn round and belt Tania but then she just grinned a bit weakly. After all, she knew what Tania was like and she HAD been told it was going to be a ‘wet and messy’ evening! Oh, Donna, you’re no fun sometimes!” she protested. “You know how my evenings are always a lot of fun. Help me out, will you?”

'I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy'

OK, girls,” said Tania, “only one thing left for it. Let’s get changed out of our wet and messy gear and get naked!” As a person ages their pelvic floor muscles naturally weaken, and women who have had kids are more likely to have weaker pelvic floors as a result of childbirth. Eventually she went to university and started wearing nappies. "I was still called names and still had accidents," she said. "The only difference was that I had a bathroom pass so was never in that original situation again. Then we noticed some people coming in our direction, and giggling all the way, we ran hand in hand down to the sea and dived in the water! It was then that she started delving into modelling and sex work. "I realised that wetting yourself is actually quite a big niche in that world and I realised that this thing I was ashamed of could be turned into my own business. It was just an idea and I really didn't expect it to take off like it has."