It was definitely very creepy, given that I had also volunteered with this woman and we had all met through volunteering and it suddenly dawned on me afterward that this was the reason she was always so friendly toward me and standing just a leetle bit too close inside of my personal space at the volunteer place. The difference is that men more frequently feel entitled to coerce women into participating in them. At first he was not happy but when she decribed how she was fucked by the stranger and how much she enjoyed it he finally agreed.

Once the head of my cock passed through her anal sphincter the shaft easily pushed deep in side her. It sounds like you really need a grounding in what is "normal", what constitutes acceptable behavior in our society, someone you can talk to who can say, "Yes, that is totally reasonable" - totally reasonable to feel, totally reasonable to say, totally reasonable to do.

After removing my boxers she started kissing and sucking my balls into her mouth and then licking the shaft up and down. As time went on, we pushed the envelope even further until we moved into the most ultimate explorations of sexual adventure one could have imagined. I imagine that in the right circumstances, this can be a very positive experience for women, and would think it must make you feel some of the energy you had while dating. I, like everyone else, am a nest of turn-ons, turn-offs, fetishes, desires, revulsions, and fantasies. I also wonder, if he's trying to groom you or break you as someone mentioned above - what else has he already broken your resolve on?

If he can't live without this fetish, then you two are at an impasse and I think divorce is the only option. So there IS hope for us, we just have to take more vitamins and drink enough coffee to stay up late enough to play. I recommend that you start over-reacting, well, realy reacting appropriately to his appalling behavior. At the same time, you do realize that your strategy of "letting it drop" hasn't worked over the last five years and is never going to work.Your husband has zero interest in stopping his relentless pursuit of what he wants here, and there is no reason at all why you should in any way reward him for the shitty insisting, badgering, and refusing to seek counseling act that he has been pulling for 5 years. Seriously, do not feel badly if you do not want to indulge your husband's fantasies via any suggestions made by Dan Savage.