VASECTOMY - Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male. As I gradually evolved from monogamy to polygamy to polyamory to gang bangs, lesbianism was missing in my experience. I was loath of going alone with a woman. What if she gives me great pleasure, and then I didn’t do anything for her? That will be cheating and betrayal.

It took me a little while but eventually fell asleep. Over the next few days, I'd get on and find Jay online as well usually around the same time. I didn't bother to look or talk to anyone else. The conversations were very easy and about everything, although I must admit it was so hot to talk about sex with him. He had a way to take any and all tension away, I almost felt like I was talking to a girlfriend. We talked about past experiences and fantasies. He was experienced but the way he talked about it was very open and not like bragging. Never made me feel self-conscious. For whatever reason I didn't feel threatened or like I was being used. He was bringing something out of me and I was enjoying it. I shared with him my fantasy about being with another woman, I had not done that and lately I was thinking about it more and more. BBW - Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their “ideal” weight, but are comfortable with the size that they are. SWINGING - An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.

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FFM or FMF - Threesome involving two women and one man (see THREESOME). FFM sometimes refers to a threesome that is female-centric, where the women play more with each other. B&D or B/D -Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave" (see BONDAGE; DISCIPLINE; BDSM). We were in Southern California for two meetings, both on Wednesday, one week apart. The rest of the time was ours to spend as we wished. Then there are the fake swingers. These couples tend to be younger. They attend all the big events, and if there's a stripper pole in the room, you can bet they'll be the first ones on it. But when it comes down to the actual swinging, they're more into the exhibitionist aspect of the lifestyle and ultimately are not looking for sex with other couples.

We entered into ENM after twenty years of monogamy. We talked about our sex life (experiences previous to marriage, where we would like to go,) for three years before we finally decided to get into sex with other couples (and eventually, singles.) By the time we got around to it, we'd considered everything. As we looked in, I saw Susan standing beside Stan. Susan was nude, and Stan was kneeling on the floor, naked from the waist down. Mallory was lying on the bed naked with her legs draped over Stan's shoulders, and her eyes were closed. Stan's face was buried in Mallory's pussy, and she had both hands around his head, pulling his face into her. Mallory was panting heavily as she worked her pussy against Stan's tongue and lips. It was evident that she was rapidly approaching an orgasm.This was before the internet. Meeting other couples was a long, drawn-out process that involved answering magazine ads by snail mail. This was a process that could take weeks, if not months before you would actually meet the other couple. But with Mallory's ban on any local activity, that's how it had to be for us at the time. TUBAL LIGATION - Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the Fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. Be on time to the parties. Again, if you aren't on time, you may find yourself standing all night. Plus, if you are early or on time, you can easily meet and mingle with others as they arrive rather than coming in after things have already gotten started and finding yourself just wishing you had a place to sit or even stand!

And now there are two sets of hands pulling up my shirt, undressing me. One hand, and then two, grasp the growing bulge in my undies, squeezing me. I groan when I realize that you both have hold of me, one on my penis, and the other on my balls. Then, almost in an instant, my undies lie at my feet and my erection points out in front of me. Now your hands work together on my shaft, squeezing and pulling. I can barely stand. I stripped him, and then he stripped me. We caressed for a while and then he went down on me. Neither of us could keep from looking at her over and over to be sure she was OK. I shudder and shake, I groan at the wonderful sensation of it. I look down at the both of you and I almost come at the sight of the two of you working on me. If at all possible, arrive the night before the hotel takeover begins. Arriving early will allow you time to get comfortable with your room and work any kinks out that you may encounter as well as give you a chance to meet people before things really get going. If there is a hot tub, go hang out by it. If other swinger couples came early too, you will probably find them around the hot tub. TRIAD - Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.The best place to have a gangbang is anywhere that you are comfortable. However, I would not advise inviting a bunch of guys you don't know over to your house. A hotel is probably the best choice. Make sure you get a room that is big enough to accommodate the number of people you hope to have show up. You may want to get a suite with an adjoining sitting area, to have room to spread out. Don't forget the necessary supplies like lube and condoms. Make sure to have plenty of your preferred condom on hand, as well as your favorite lube. You're likely to get a little dry after a couple of hours. The other you stands before us, waiting. She knows that we are unsure, that we are in uncharted territory. She waits for one of us to speak. As Susan left the kitchen, I watched her go into the living room and sit down next to Stan, a nice-looking guy that looked to be in his late 20s. After talking for a few minutes, I saw them look over at Mallory. Stan smiled at Susan and nodded in agreement with whatever she told him. Susan returned to the kitchen smiling. I guess I got most of my sexual education from those friends, what I heard. I think what stayed most with me was the way other kids talked about girls, especially in comparison to boys. The way girls were talked about who had or at least implied they were having sex was negative for the most part. I remember girls being called sluts or whores, while boys were looked at as if it was almost expected. I guess that also made it difficult to be open. I kept to myself and when anything sexual went through my mind, I did everything I could to keep it to myself. I guess now I'm beginning to accept and admit I wanted much more than I did or let on.