Chapter 8 describes the need for physical attractiveness, including the spouse’s weight, makeup, hair, clothes, and hygiene. His practical advice and insights have helped countless couples improve their communication and strengthen their bond. Unlike many good marriage books out there that encourage you to look beyond your selfishness, this book plunges you into selfish behavior. Chỉ là cảm nhận của riêng mình thì phần đông giá trị hôn nhân và gia đình ở Việt Nam bây giờ khá là tương đồng với giá trị mà trong sách nói tới.

By applying the principles of His Needs, Her Needs, couples can maintain a high Love Bank balance, cultivate fulfilling love habits, and establish a lasting, loving relationship. If they are not a cheater, it doesn't matter what the other spouse does or does not do, they won't cheat.

It's principals have guided my marriage and helped my husband and I make it to our 8th year and beyond more in love with each other than ever! Chapter 11 describes the need for family commitment evidenced by both time and training and something to which husbands must commit another fifteen house per week (160-161). For over twenty-five years, His Needs, Her Needs has been transforming marriages all over the world.

and his wife, Joyce, explain the important concept of the Love Bank, and teach them to meet each other's emotional needs for affection, sex, intimate conversation, companionship, family commitment, physical attractiveness, honesty and openness, and admiration. He is a psychologist and I felt he was coming at everything from an old-school Freudian approach-- everything on the male side comes down to sexual fulfillment.Quality family time means increasing the quality of family time (not to be confused with feeding, clothing, watching over children, it when the family is together for the moral and educational development of the children). He further elaborates on the concept of 'Fair Fight', providing practical advice on how to avoid hurt and resentment during disagreements, and how to instead use these conflicts to enhance understanding and intimacy. Sneak peek: Men's needs are "Sexual fulfillment," "recreational companionship," "physical attractiveness," "domestic support," and "admiration. Couples who find each other irresistible during the early years of their marriage may become incompatible if they fail to meet these central needs. It also offers specific, practical steps on spending quality time as a couple, deciding on child-training methods, dividing domestic responsibilities, and even handling kids with ADHD and intrusive in-laws.