These systems are primarily self-entered and thus endlessly customizable, but examples are also given in-game if you wish to use them! Whether it’s solo sex or with a partner, it’s healthy to seek out new perspectives and techniques, and this attitude will help you have better experiences in the bedroom and out.

Consider toys that you may not have thought suitable for solo play before, as well as those that stimulate different parts of the body. Perhaps you already masturbate using a vibrator or dildo, but the options for exploration don’t end there.MORE : 11 things you’ve always wanted to know about female masturbation but were too embarrassed to ask

For mindful sex geared toward positive body image, incorporate a meditative mindset into the solo date-night massage oil ritual we went over earlier. Edging – when you bring yourself to the precipice of climax before stopping – can also be a great way to inject some excitement into proceedings. Delay the orgasm as much as you can, so when you do get there it’s more intense than ever.Tantric breathing or orgasmic mediation is another great way to do this that doesn't require getting off your ass. We enjoy the guides to tantric breathing and meditation on Dipsea or Youtube instructors like this one as a jumping-off point.