Choosing a plastic locking system also means that there’s no key to take care of and nothing that might get lost, providing another argument for using such a system if your man remains in chastity while traveling. An improperly fitted belt is likely to pinch, rub or chafe; it may even harmfully compress his genitals. Even if the interest in introducing male chastity into your relationship comes from you rather than from him, and even if you already have plenty of ideas about what you’d like to do and where you’d like to take things, you might still want to read this section for background knowledge and ideas, and also to discover the likely impact of various types of chastity play on the submissive male.

Performed properly on a healthy subject, prostate massage may be beneficial, but it is not entirely risk free.Tube-type devices fasten directly to the man’s genitals, generally being secured by means of a ring that sits next to his lower abdomen, encircling his penis and scrotum. Even if he is not usually troubled with premature ejaculation, a period in chastity can make him as excitable – and as explosive – as he probably was on the night he lost his virginity. Encourage him to think for himself, to anticipate your desires, to fulfill your needs before you’re even aware of them yourself. Within a few minutes, or perhaps a few hours, or at most by the next morning, he will probably be ready for service once more.

Ring-based tube devices work by gently cradling the wearer’s scrotum between the cage and ring; the gap between these must be large enough to comfortably accommodate the scrotum while being too small for the testicles to pass through. There’s no need for you to allow this to become an obsession: male chastity does not define your relationship; it is an adjunct to your relationship. Stamp your own mark on the proceedings rather than following his script – and make it clear that he scenario is happening because you want it. And that desire was based on sexual tension, on the physical rewards you could offer him – rewards that were temporarily denied, although he knew they were right there within his grasp, if only he could win you.

Presuming he’s becoming hornier by the second day, he would record a ‘2’ and a ‘1’ indicating that he’s a little hornier but not yet feeling significantly more frustrated, and so on. Part of that may be due to biology, though it sure also goes back to the way most of us have been brought up, with boys encouraged to be decisive and daring and girls encouraged to be desired and demure. The idea of changes appearing in what may well be a comfortable, familiar relationship may seem daunting, but remember that when it comes to intimacy and romance, ‘comfortable’ and ‘familiar’ can sometimes be too much of a good thing.

However, a man’s libido is like money in the bank: once it’s spent, you have to wait for the next payday. Some couples who practice male chastity use prostate massage to regularly ‘flush’ the man’s reproductive system, the idea being that his can help counter any long-term health risks. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice.An important aspect of her man’s bodily well-being – one that was previously his own private business – is now under her direct control. She was puzzled at first, then slow to begin, but in time took up reaching me with one hand, or sometimes by mouth. Even discounting this male tendency to sexual submissiveness, a man who is denied orgasm is a man who is constantly horny, and let’s face it – horniness is fun for them, particularly if a desirable woman (that would be you! Decent information, but I did not agree with everything, such as the insistence that a male in long term chastity needs to be milked regularly for prostate health.