As such (which should have been stressed on here) regardless of your both new to this, one of you is but the other isn’t etc is open and honest conversation(s) with each other, based off early understanding that you both have a mutual interest in exploring this type of fun, which you’ve fully discussed together and set boundaries and attempted to understand how any activities you agree to do first. Give him femdom homework, he needs to watch and read femdom porn for 30 minutes a day, he can also study sub guides to learn to be a better sub. Once I have removed all of your clothes you will kneel down at my feet, I am going to collar you and you will submit yourself to me. But if we’re pressed for a suggestion, we suggest looking into Gianna Michaels (AKA Gianna Rossi) and her scenes.

If people can’t get under your skin they won’t try, keep things mysterious so you don’t have to deal with every little thing. If you don’t have one you can use an electric toothbrush (just take the head off and make sure to charge it fully), you can use it on the balls and head of the penis for a satisfying rumble.Of course, many male submissives take a delicious yet painful glee by not being able to touch or taste their dommes, and masturbating in front of him might be the perfect way to tease him!

I created this blog to share my sexual experiences along with the experiences of people from all walks of life. Those baffled by these behaviors—including other more traditional women—see them as acts of aggression toward a long-established system. Plus, prodding, kicking, or stepping on him is one way to literally put your foot down in this relationship! Something I like to do in gentle femdom is fully restrain my boyfriend, then just snuggle up and watch a movie of my choice. Femdom fills in such an existential black hole, while opening a rabbit hole into a wonderland of sexual fantasies where subs can put down their social burden and jump into a thrilling new life by only serving and obeying dommes who take all control and make all decisions.

power exchange where the female or femme takes charge but under the guise of more nurturing, affectionate tactics. Then, try to accessorize with everything from gloves to jewelry to clips and barrettes for your hair.

Not only do you get to combine bondage in the form of handcuffs, but you can play rough as you chase and tackle a criminal that needs to be brought to justice. A chastity cage is an enclosure made of various materials, like metal, resin, silicone, leather, etc. This guide will help you to transform your marriage or relationship into one where your needs come first, in and out of the bedroom. After he’s comfortable wearing that, you can carefully measure for a stone, glass or metal cock ring. If he is into feminization, use this chance to treat his cock as a clit as you use the vibrator on him.Fuck him slowly, pull him out every time he is close to cumming, massage his cock in between, and use it like I want to whilst telling him what a good boy he is. It might take a bit to figure out how to make your commands and punishments work over the phone, but brainstorming can really get your juices flowing. You can take safety precautions such as negotiating the scene beforehand ( perhaps with a contract), using a safe word, and following up with aftercare to minimize the risk of adverse effects when you play together.

It still needs an open mind from whoever is involved, but it’s far easier to start and have a conversation about it. Four ways on his back: Restrain both his wrists and ankles to each corner of the bed (this is so easy with the restraints I mentioned before). If you really want to invoke power and control, dress up in a way that gives you that extra dominance boost. He should ask and say “Please” before he touches himself or you, before he comes, and before he does anything you have not given him permission to do.If they’re the more dominant personality outside the bedroom, then it’s their turn to get a taste of feeling helpless and controlled.