I would also avoid laying the dildo flat for long periods of time as all the different densities interacting with each other could create a flat spot. Thankfully, it can stand upright without much trouble. I think the reason behind why they call it the O2 is because, after trying out these dual-density dongs, you’ll end up needing them like Oxygen. Luzarte Polka Dot Jollet; Tantus Vibrating Vamp (grab bag version); Lovehoney 7 Inch Curved; Fun Factory Big Boss; and Fuze Harmony. The best the starting point for beginners in the quest for sexual exploration and an excellent resource for regular sex toy users to expand thei Thankfully, Uberrime didn’t spot there as they just released a ton of beautifully realistic dual-density dildos! So there’s really something for everyone here.

NS Novelties now has a Colours Wave suction cup dildo ( review here) that’s more abstract, silkier, and slightly softer than the company’s realistic Colours Pleasures toys, at about 17A shore.

Dildo Dual Density: How to Choose

If you want to use a dual density dildo for anal penetration, make sure it has a flared base (you don’t want it getting lost up there!) Other things to think about are your size limits, as well as the materials the dildo is made from. If it’s a porous material, make sure to use a condom and plenty of lube.

First my personal favorite category: softer silicone dildos. Squish demo of the semi-soft to soft toys here, and of really soft options here. As always, bodysafe silicone only! Bullet points run from SOFTEST to HARDEST in this section. Soft Squishy Dildos Most grabby skin lines: Tantus O2 realistic dildos are on the firmer side, especially the bullet-vibe-compatible Sam, Duchess, and Alan ( review here). Of the non-vibrating realistics, next-firmest is Uncut #1, my dual-density dildo awakening, whose outer layer of silicone measures up to 10A shore; while Gary is a much-softer 5A. The Tantus O2 realistics have a grabby finish that adds some friction—which I love but some people find abrupt. Excellent for those who prefer soft yet textured dildos made from body-safe silicone and those to whom size matters, this big boy delivers. The balls also float loosely inside of the scrotum and are just a blast to play with, whether you’re into balls or not ( heterosexual man speaking here ). You can see the top layer that can be compressed separately from the interior layer. The entire shaft isn't squishy, only the top layer smooshes between my fingers. The core remains sturdy. Making Dildos More RealisticHow do you use a dildo?First and foremost, Dildos always require lubrication. The personal lubricant that you use with your dildo needs to be compatible with the material the dildo is made from. Water-based lubricants are a safe bet if you're ever unsure of what lubricant to use. If you are using a dildo made of silicone, do not use silicone-based lubricant as silicone reacts with silicone. Read Everything you need to know about lubricants to find out more. It can be fully sanitized—killing all bacteria and microorganisms—because it’s very chemically stable and resistant to high temperatures. That makes it safe to use for years at a time, and after sanitizing a toy, you can use it vaginally after having used it anally or use it with a different partner. 1 You can always ask your partner to manually maneuver the dildo, even if it’s not harness-compatible, or if you’re having PiV sex, a dildo can be used for double penetration.

On a more positive note, the Freak is a lot more realistic than even the most realistic Thrusters available today, so if you prefer more lifelike dildos, you’ll definitely prefer this one. It is also much less loud than most similar toys, though this might be due to the smaller motors dishing out only a fraction of the thrust length of what other devices are capable of. Thanks to the squishy outer silicone layer, none of these features become too intense or irritating during extended play.

BS Silicone/ BS Atelier (formerly BS Is Nice) creates beautiful artisan toys with a dripping-paint effect, out of 15A silicone that tests up to 18A shore. BS Silicone also makes split density toys like Nude: those have a soft (7A) head that transitions into the firmer shaft. I *love* silicone dildos—from the best dual-density silicone to squishy-soft single-density silicone. After all, silicone dildos are the only body-safe sex toys that can feel soft (or very hard!). If you want a penis-like feel in your sex toy—or you want an abstract dildo that’s soft but not floppy—then a dual-density dildo is the way to go. (But be sure it’s dual-density silicone, because there are also dual layer dildos made from unsafe TPE and PVC.) Fuze Silicone also now makes suction cup dildos with a similar firmness: fairly hard. I found that this makes Freddie’s forward curve more intense for G-spot stimulation! Neo Elite Glow! The Neo Elite Glow toys (2 models) are slightly firmer than original Neo Elite, and you can see through the soft silicone to the core underneath—very cool. These glow really well after you let ’em sit on a windowsill / in light first. That’s why I believe every new dildo-buyer should know that silicone toys vary in so many ways: not just in size and shape, but in firmness. This toy guide was written to help you find the best density dildo for you.

Lovehoney’s 7″ Curved Silicone Dildo ( CA version here; UK version here) and Curved 5.5″ ( CA; UK) are firmer, 7 abstract toys with a satiny silicone finish. The hardness helps keep the 7″ Curved’s dramatic curve stable during suction cup play, though I prefer it as a vibrating dildo. The designs on your double-layered dildo aren’t just for visuals. They do something for sensations too. Though it is worth noting that this isn’t a foreskin dildo meant to simulate the way skin moves on an uncircumcised penis.Remember the affordable, soft, and realistic dual-density Naked Addiction dildo from earlier? What if it thrusts and rotates like it was possessed by Pazuzu himself? Well, you’d get the Naked Addiction Freak, of course! Neo Elite has several models to give you a range of color options. It also comes in a few different sizes that range from 6 to 7.5 inches, and you can also choose a model with or without balls.