If working late is suddenly a new normal even though your partner’s job doesn’t really require it, they may not be telling the truth about where they are. Firstly, you don't want to act out of your emotions, so take a little while to get yourself under control. You don't want to make any irrational decisions and make sure you do what you can to try and save your marriage before you walk away. Anyway , about this time she realised she had been rumbled and confessed and said she would stop . Then she stared at me open mouthed when i said , you dont have to . He was living in another country at the time, we had never met face to face. It was just like, a cyber friendship that turned into something that was a lot more. We eventually made plans to meet each other after eight months.

I was just looking in the mirror and realizing I was getting older and older every day. I had settled into a routine. Me, I’m a player. I know what’s up, and he married a bad girl. You can’t tame a bad girl with a wedding ring or pregnancy, and I know a part of him knows that too. I love the chase. I love the game. I love the sex. Variety is bae. Monogamy is nay! Hubby is a cool guy and all, but ‘cool’ ain’t shit. I’m a ‘HOT’ commodity, so I don’t limit myself to thinking only about my husband and kid. My customers also need my creativity to help solve their marital problems (I know you get the drift?). I think of every ‘call’ as a problem solving opportunity. I am selling more than just a body in a hot dress. I am selling ideas, perspectives, and insight into the mind of a man. I do the needs-based kind of sex: I determine my customer’s needs before I start to propose skills (solutions). Spitzberg BH. Extramarital affairs. The International Encyclopedia of Interpersonal Communication, First Edition. 2016. doi:10.1002/9781118540190.wbeic0145

I thought there had to be someone out there who could have a conversation with me, who found me attractive, who was missing what I was. I started going on dates. No matter what the thing is, if it’s sexual, it’s almost certain someone in the world will be weirded out enough to get judgmental about it.

If you have an uncomfortable feeling or a suspicion you can’t seem to justify, that might be your subconscious telling you that your partner is lying about something. Dealing With CheatingCouples need to define for themselves what constitutes infidelity in the context of their relationship. Signs of Cheating When you ask your partner questions about who they were with or what they were doing, their nervousness increases. Of course she did not believe me at first. ....but she she would love to do this though if she had some sort of reassurance. Partners engaged in infidelity often cheat over the internet, either on their computer or phone. If your partner is overly protective of their electronic devices or defensive about spending time on them, that might mean they don’t want you to know who they’re talking to. I’m a man. I do not nor have ever smoked myself … but I get fully aroused watching a woman smoke. My erections are stronger, and my orgasm more intense, if my partner smokes during our activities. But I’m always embarrassed to ask. I worry they’ll get no pleasure from it and will think I’m weird. And I have no explanation for why it has such an effect on me, or why I like it so much. Help?

He will know in no uncertain terms that I am not man enough for my wife and need him to sexually satisfy her. During that time as i knew they did most of their chatting by facebook i was logging in and seeing what they were up to , not proud of snooping , but i kind of felt justified . I am Two (2) months old in my marriage, and I am already in an emotional affair with someone else. My husband is a good guy and all, but Dave, I am not that much into him anymore. I thought I did, that’s why I agreed to marry him. We had known each other for a few years – so I am a little bit surprised as to why I feel we are not even that connected intimately. We have very good sex and we do communicate so well. He loves me so dearly, but… I feel he’s the only one enjoying this marriage. I have practically fallen out of love with him. I do not want to be polyamorous. A single romantic relationship is quite time-consuming enough. I just want to hang out, bone, and go home. I never dated the man I had the affair with after the marriage ended. My ex-husband asked me after the divorce if I had an affair and I said yes, but I didn’t tell him who with.I recently formally separated from my husband of about seven years. I have never been with anyone else. After a medium level of sexual activity for the first few years of our relationship—once a week to twice a week—he put a halt to all sex. His excuses ranged from depression to my weight gain. Eventually, I discovered a lot of gay and trans porn on his computer, along with some ads for casual meet-ups with men. This will either give you a chance to file for divorce and move on to another relationship or fix your marriage if you want to stay because she is the love of your life. He didn’t want to get help. I just looked at him one day and thought, he doesn’t get to have my entire life. He will be aware of this and hopefully let me hear how much of a whore whore she really is. BTW, she often proudly calls herself a whore.