Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

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Through the lens of his bisexuality and much self-described sluttiness, Zane breaks down exactly how this sexual shame negatively impacts the sex and relationships in our lives and, through personal experience, shares how we can unlearn the harmful, entrenched messages that society imparts to us.

Hopefully people can look beyond that shock and find some of the great things Zane has to say about Shame, polyamory, sex positivity, and more. The author reads, and I really appreciated his absolute refusal to abandon his embrace of being a slut. I wanted to read it because of the bi male rep, and had not heard of or read Zachary Zane's sex column prior to requesting the title.We have followed Zachary’s Instagram for years and love his positive messages around life, sex and love.

This is an extended advice column, that mostly rings the right bells; but in the end it's an extended advice column. Americans, to our fault, are the most sex-obsessed people in the world, and the fact that books like this still get published perplexes me. Largely left with the feeling of 'huh, well, that's that then', though sex-positivity is always wonderful.The heteronormative hunter/hunted dynamic helps no one; it’s only made masculinity more toxic and exacerbated male privilege, enabling men to keep treating women horribly.

I’ve been pegged by a New York Times bestselling author, bred contestants from America’s Next Top Model, boned countless queens from RuPaul’s Drag Race, and fucked Emmy, Tony, and Grammy winners.

With women, I tend to wear a condom significantly more and actually just assume that they want me to wear a condom.