Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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I read about relationship-, as well as male and female psychology, because it's a fascinating subject to me.

He obviously IS very selfish as he instructs us all to be and is an aethiest that very rudely disrespects any Higher Power. He told me exactly what the men really want (yes, you guessed and no they didn't get it) in a 'placeholder' whilst waiting for 'the one' who is not a typical, game-playing female that they can game better.By the time you realize the ticket to success and happiness you have been sold isn’t worth the paper it was printed on, it will be too late. So there you have it, I'm shallow, I'm a woman men like the look of so I get dates, but do not love so I do not get relationships, still I did get to drive a Corvette and in Ferraris and an Aston Martin. Women are constantly comparing themselves to other women, and thinking that they are the only ones doing well in life.

She who believes, achieves, the problem is most “she’s” don’t actually believe they have what it takes to be successful at love. Without knowing how men think and what they really want, many women will end up alone and with broken hearts.

I had to explore internally the entire read and have definitely done a complete mindset shift regarding relationships and gender roles. The way I see it, unless the man approaches you first, you’re forcing something to happen that simply wasn’t meant to happen. A change in mindset can be done without the verbal expression used in this book, so it becomes obvious that the author was trying to cash in on shock value rather than anything else. Yet, I’m not convinced it’s always effective in getting men to do the approaching and in making men fall in love.

When you learn the hard way that no matter how many times you put him first or how hard you love that man, that it doesn’t guarantee you anything, the idea of believe and achieve loses it’s power. I know this guy won't be to everyone's taste - he pulls no punches and lays it all bare - but if you are sick and tired of treating men the way you'd like to be treated and getting nothing back you will read this and wise up! e. taking time to observe the potential beau's character and personality, abstaining from physical affection until you're sure that the potential beau is someone you'd want to be exclusive with) was validated.The book has a few valid points, but those are the absolute 101 of dating and can be found in any literature on the subject, where you don't feel clubbed by having made mistakes growing-up. I'm just coming out of a 10+ year relationship as a place holder ( smh I know but you live you learn) and this books just affirms all the "crazy" thoughts I have about him, me and our relationship. I really liked that the author emphasized the agency of women (the target audience), empowered them to create standards for themselves and to not waver from them when looking for a partner.

You can follow all kinds of do-to-get life rules, but love is the one thing that will take years of your life and leave you with nothing to show for it. Unfortunately history was not the kindest to women, and we were seen quite often as being dispensable. This book is however, very useful for young persons getting on the dating scene dating men who are relatively carefree.The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer by Lambert, G. Some of you claim you’re Spartans because you once approached a guy, or you had the heart to cut off a fuck boy, but are you a Spartan 24-7? By popular demand, the audio version of the second part of Men Don’t Love Women like You, updated and expanded.