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I must laugh at many of the things you say about grandparents. For example, you seem to think if a grandparent doesn’t remember a painful moment from their childhood, the grandparent is either lying s or conveniently forgets the things they’ve done from their parenting days. Do you even know anything about human interaction, emotions, development or what happens as a person age? How about perspective? People in this country need to get over their ‘crappy’ childhoods. We all have them at one point or another. My mom couldn’t even remember when I slapped her and called her a b**** when I was a teenager, and it bothered me all my life. Turns out, she either remembers the situation differently, or there was more than one incident. She told me how bad she has always felt because she slapped me when I was a teenager and she called me a b****. The first action of a parent in this instance is to tell the grand parent to ‘STOP IT’ and explain the harm they are causing. If they refuse to stop, cut ties until they come to their senses (this might be an indefinite period). Make sure you keep a record of all the instances of their harassing behavior too. The most important thing is whats in the best interest of the children. Remember that. Now, my daughter and I moved to a very nice house when I got married. My father went off. He went to my wedding but would not even pay for my cake. My husband and I paid for the entire wedding. As strange as it may seem, too many gifts can be a bad thing. Not only is it manipulative, but it also teaches the kids to be spoiled and materialistic. so sorry you’re going through this. I agree, spoiling the child with materialistic things is one of the worst things you can do as a parent or a grandparent. You say your mother has custody of your daughter, so this is a legal issue at this point. I can’t speak on legal matters but I would say, try to get yourself better psychologically and emotionally so that the court can see that you’re a fit mother. Also, having a job is important, so you can show that you can support your daughter.

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You can explain to your child what is not OK. When they are of age if it really is not the child will make up their own mind. Sarkis, S. M. (2018). Gaslighting: Recognize Manipulative and Emotionally Abusive People – and Break Free. Da Capo Press. When I had started college, we had a kind of treasure hunt around the campus. My Nanna lived in the local area and I hadn’t seen her for almost 8 years to this point. I was now 16, but in her mind, I’d probably still be 8. As I was doing part of this exercise, I saw her with a young girl in her garden. I can’t be certain who this young girl was, but I am of the belief it was either my half-sister Sophie or my cousin’s daughter Rebecca. I stood and spoke to her for a good while. I left and I promised her I would take some time to see her.In these types of cases, the child most certainly had been “groomed” by a narcissistic grandmother or grandfather. You have an obligation to protect your kids from any harm that comes their way, even from someone who’s supposed to love and care for them. Playing the victim accomplishes that while allowing them to evade any responsibility for their actions.

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Grandparents and all individuals with children can bring joy and delight to a child’s life.How about listing the positive effects too. But even so, he still tries to denigrate me in front of his acquaintances. Playing the victim, he constantly posts childhood photos of me on his facebook profile (without my consent) where he brags about me like everything I achieved in my life is because of him, and I’m the ungrateful grandson who never visits him.Grandparents don’t have an automatic right to access the children (nor do biological parents). The only right that is important is the right of the children to live in a safe and stable home, this is the most important thing to consider.

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Her son? Totally alienated, he fears her so much that he would accept really anything, even if it hurts his own children. Surely when visits to grandparents reveal unwanted experiences as well as good ones the balanced parent will build on the good and either discuss or ignore the bad. Excessive gift-giving, especially when one child gets better gifts than the others, sends the message that gifts equal love. year old daughter. My mom has told me since the beginning that my daughter is a “problem child”, difficult, mean or even narsissistic. She constantiy points out how smart, nice and well behaving child I was and compares that to my daughter always telling me how “difficult ” person my daughter is compared to me. The worst part of this is that it took me years to even notice this! She really made me feel that my completely normal child is in some mysterious way really difficult.

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my mother her Nanna better than her mother, Caroll over that son it made her jealous and my family a.threat HOWEVER, If a parent is doing their job (kids are happy, healthy and in school) then the grandparent has no place trying to dictate any terms or demand anything from the parent. The parent only needs to consider what is in the best interest of the children, not what the Grandparent ‘Wants’. Don’t try to appease or cater for a demanding grandparent. Put yourself and the children first, always. They also want to be invited to every family vacation, dinner, and other events the parents might prefer to enjoy with friends or alone with their kids.